By Gary A.
Edited by Brian M.
Published Mar 17, 2022
Edited on Dec 18, 2024
When comparing Moissanite vs. Diamond, itâs easy to get caught up in the debate over sparkle, cost, and overall valueâyet each gemstone brings its own allure to the world of engagement rings.
Before we dive deeper into the specifics, here are some practical tips to help guide your decision-making process:
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We all think about what people are going to say and think when they see the ring in the Moissanite vs. Diamond debate. Doing research at the computer, consulting with your jeweler, waiting for the call that itâs all ready and waiting for you â our minds are constantly wandering off not just to the moment we pop the question, but also to the time when the ring is on her finger and being admired by friends, relatives, co-workers, and random strangers who happen to catch it sparkling from across the room.
Itâs not a character flaw to want to impress people â your partner included â and itâs something a lot of shoppers feel. Thereâs a certain amount of pressure to surpass all expectations, particularly when it comes to the size of your diamond.
Itâs often the pressures of that âgo big or go homeâ mentality that introduces shoppers to moissanite â a common, low-value diamond simulant that bears some resemblance to diamond and enables shoppers to place a much larger center stone in their ring, for a much lower cost.
But how do they really stack-up against one another?
Most shoppers come across this mineral during their research, so here is everything you need to know about the mineral, from its appearance and physical properties to its value.
It is crystalized silicon carbide (SiC) that bears some resemblance to diamond. While it is a naturally-occurring mineral, the moissanite used in jewelry is man-made.
The first thing you will notice about moissanite is its resemblance to diamond. When cut, it looks like a pretty convincing alternative â clear and highly refractive, it seems to share more similarities than differences.
On closer inspection, however, the differences are pretty significant. For starters, moissanite has a lot more refractive and a higher refractive index than diamond, meaning that it emits far more fire than brilliance (more on that below).
Moissanite is often comparable to a K or L color on the color scale, although the GIA does not grade moissanite. Itâs relatively hard to spot in smaller moissanite stones, but larger moissanite stones tend to appear a little yellow (or even green), and, while itâs possible to create whiter moissanite, larger stones with great color are harder to come by.
Natural deposits are found in nature, but the moissanite you encounter today will be lab-grown.
The first natural moissanite deposits were discovered relatively recently, in the late nineteenth century. They were found in a meteor crater in Canyon Diablo, near Two Guns in Arizona, having been brought to earth from stars located beyond our solar system (a fact which was proved later, during analysis of a meteorite that landed in Australia in 1969). At first, they were presumed to be diamond.
While silicon carbide had already been manufactured in labs by that point, it took several years before these natural deposits were identified as being silicon carbide, and not diamond. It was eventually named after its discoverer, Henri Moissan.
For decades, geologists believed that the earthâs few natural moissanite deposits were exclusively extraterrestrial (from space), and not naturally-occurring on earth. In the mid-twentieth century, however, moissanite was found in the upper mantle, within kimberlite deposits.
Whether from space or earth, however, natural moissanite is incredibly rare. The moissanite you encounter will have been grown in a lab.
Moissanite is cheap because itâs easily produced. Unlike diamond, itâs not a finite natural resource that requires considerable effort to recover from kimberlite pipes and alluvial deposits â it can simply be made and replaced according to demand.
The fact that moissanite is as cheap as it is poses a major issue for shoppers. Diamond scams that utilize moissanite as a convincing diamond simulant are pretty common, since scammers can purchase moissanites for very little money, and sell them to unsuspecting buyers for thousands of dollars more than their initial investment.
Provided you shop from a reputable jeweler, however, you donât need to worry about inadvertently overpaying for an inferior substance.
Compared with diamond, moissanite looks convincing enough in a single photograph, but thereâs a world of difference between how you view and experience one of these stones through a screen, and how you experience it in real life. For most people, the difference is a dealbreaker in and of itself.
While there are some similarities, even non-experts will be able to identify a clear difference between a diamondâs light performance, and a moissaniteâs light performance.
Does that matter? For most shoppers, yes. A diamondâs light performance is one of its most distinctive and coveted traits. Shoppers learn to scrutinize the specifics of a diamondâs cut in order to maximize the light performance of their ring, so switching to a simulant with that is incapable of creating the same sparkle is an off-putting idea for many.
While a Round Brilliant diamond will create a mesmeric display of white and colorful sparks of light, Moissanite will produce significantly less white light. The effect has less dimension to it, and the distinctively crisp brightness of diamond is missing.
The effect is convincing enough in brief glimpses, which is why moissanite has seen some popularity in fashion jewelry, but itâs far from ideal if the stone is intended to be worn regularly.
In many cases, moissanite features a poorer color than diamond. Most moissanite stones are judged to fall around a K grade, while itâs a lot easier to find diamonds that are Colorless (D, E, and F) or Near Colorless (grades G, H, I, and J).
While color isnât the most important of the Four Cs when it comes to diamond quality, we always urge readers to go no lower than the Near Colorless range. A visible yellow tint can easily ruin an otherwise beautiful diamond and make your engagement ring look cheap â or even old and dirty.
As we mentioned above, itâs possible to find whiter moissanite, itâs not so easy. Larger moissanite stones, while cheap, are likely to show some color.
Whatâs more, due to the stonesâ lack of brilliance, a slight amount of color isnât âbrightenedâ by light performance. While these stones create plenty of beautiful fire, itâs not the right kind of sparkle to brighten the stone and make it appear a higher quality than it really is.
Like diamonds, moissanites do feature internal flaws, but they are generally very minor, and moissanites are almost always eye clean.
Of course, the larger the moissanite youâre looking at, the higher the chance youâll be able to detect those inclusions with your naked eye. In general, though, itâs not hard to track down a moissanite that is at least comparable to VS clarity, so this is one area where diamond is at a slight disadvantage.
Itâs not all about looks. As the hardest natural substance on earth, diamond has moissanite beat in terms of strength and durability â but close to diamond is this gemstone?
Moissanite scores a 9.25 on the Mohs hardness scale, which puts it just 0.75 points behind diamond. It can withstand high pressure and heat, thanks to the strong bonds that comprise its structure.
Properly cared for, moissanite could last years â even with regular wear. They are very resistant to scratching and chipping, although not totally immune.
Unlike cubic zirconia â another common diamond simulant â moissanite doesnât suffer from a short shelf life, and it wonât turn cloudy or dull with daily wear.
This is considered to be a pretty compelling selling point for moissanite, and it no doubt comes as a great relief to shoppers who have purchased moissanite jewelry already. For us, the other downsides to moissanite outweigh this particular benefit â particularly for engagement rings â but itâs a reassurance, nonetheless.
Moissanite is a pretty and interesting mineral with a great history, but itâs also long-since detached from its unique, extra-terrestrial roots.
While there is something undeniably romantic about wearing a piece of a fallen star â a sparkling remnant of a meteorite crash â on our finger, the moissanite available to purchase today is no longer part of that narrative. Itâs produced on mass, in lab-conditions, and lacking the uniqueness and romance that makes diamond the obvious choice for a gift this important and this significant.
Since moissaniteâs appearance is valued because of its resemblance to diamond, its main selling point is not a result of any unique qualities, but a result of its low price. Thereâs no special meaning behind it. A lot of shoppers start off feeling impressed by the size of moissanite they can afford (compared with the size of diamond their budget accommodates) but, when the time comes, wind up realizing that a carat weight worthy of a celebrity is not worth the sacrifices.
Thereâs an added downside to moissaniteâs lack of uptake within the world of fine jewelry: itâs a lot harder to come by and, as a result, the options are more limited.
Until 2015, one company held a patent which gave them exclusive rights to produce and market synthetically-produced moissanite in jewelry. For this reason, the offerings remain relatively slim, and shoppers still struggle to find much choice for moissanite jewelry. There are some options online but, unfortunately, shoppers fall into the same trap we warn against when it comes to purchasing diamond: you canât gauge how the finished product will look in real life.
If youâve chosen to invest in a diamond engagement ring, then finding a reputable local jeweler is incredibly easy. Diamond is still regarded ultimate medium for any master jeweler, which means that you wonât just find a jeweler who sells diamond rings â youâll find a jeweler who is truly passionate about it, too.
As we mentioned, the similarities between diamond and moissanite tend to be a lot more noticeable through a screen than in real life. Moissanite is not as readily available through fine jewelry stores as diamond is, so itâs not always possible to see a side-by-side comparison in person.
Remember this: while seeing a moissanite stone on its own will no doubt mean that the average onlooker is impressed by its sparkle and color, a direct comparison with a real diamond will always reveal moissaniteâs inferiority.
Itâs understandable why moissanite appeals to so many shoppers. Anyone with a more limited budget will know that carat weight is always a primary concern â or, more specifically, figuring out how to maximize carat weight and create the most impressive ring possible. If thereâs an opportunity to spend the same amount on a relatively convincing diamond simulant two or three times the size, then itâs very tempting to take it.
The thing is, once you see these two different gemstones in real life, the differences are clear and, suddenly, the extra carat weight turns into a magnifying glass on all the shortfalls between moissanite and diamond.
For something as important as an engagement ring, diamond will always be the superior choice â both in terms of its backstory, and its beauty.
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