By Gary A.
Edited by Brian M.
Published Aug 13, 2024
Edited on Oct 15, 2024
Learn about the differences between high and low setting engagement rings and how each setting influences the brilliance, comfort, and overall appearance of your diamond.
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We tend to think about engagement rings in terms of what they look like from above. In other words, how they look when your hand is stretched out in front of you, palm facing away, and that gorgeous rock’s table and crown right there for you to admire. There’s nothing wrong with that. It’s arguably one of the best ways to look at any engagement ring.
But, if you were to spend your life walking around with your hand stretched out in front of you, you’d be missing out on plenty of other design elements and beautiful features that make the engagement ring the heart-stopping, show-stopping, crowd-pleaser that it is.
One of those elements pertains to height. Some diamonds are set very high above the finger, while others lay low – or, as low as a brilliant, fiery diamond can lie, anyway…
Before we dive deeper into the specifics, here are some practical tips to help guide your decision-making process:
Tip 1: Lifestyle Considerations:
Tip 2: Visual Impact:
Tip 3: Stone Security:
Tip 4: Wedding Band Compatibility:
Tip 5: Maintenance and Cleaning:
Tip 6: Size Perception:
Tip 7: Budget and Value:
Now that you’ve got these practical tips, use Jeweler AI below to find the perfect engagement ring that suits your style and budget:
As the name suggests, high setting rings or any rings that feature a centre diamond that has been elevated high above the Shank. There’s no specific hope requirement for a ring to be called a high setting engagement ring, but the bottom of the diamond (AKA, the culet) should be at least a few millimetres clear of the Shank in order to qualify.
High setting engagement rings can feature any elements or setting styles. It could be a simple solitaire, a halo, a bezel, and feature any number of decorative embellishments – or be totally minimalistic.
First and foremost, high settings ensure that a diamond is lifted way above the metalwork of the ring, and the hand itself, which ensures it gets as much light as possible. This is particularly true, of course, if you are pairing a high setting with a minimalistic prong design, rather than something like a halo since prongs allow the most possible light to reach the diamond.
In our experience, enhanced light performance is the main reason people opt for a high setting engagement ring. However, it’s not the only advantage.
A high setting engagement ring also makes the diamond appear a little larger. Think about it, it’s a little like forced perspective in movies. The closer something is to the perceiver, the bigger it looks. If the diamond is lifted high above the band, then, proportionately, it looks larger.
A high setting can also make it easier for the wearer to pair their engagement ring with a wedding band and an eternity ring further down the line. For bulky center settings like halos, raising that diamond higher means that the ‘overhang’ of the center setting won’t bump up against other bands worn on the same finger – or even on the next finger along. For this reason, a high setting engagement ring can be more comfortable for the wearer.
That said, high setting engagement rings can be a little trickier to wear. Since the diamond is raised higher and more prominently placed on the finger, it’s a lot more prone to snagging. Compare it with the ring style at the opposite end of the spectrum: the flush setting. With this design, the diamond sits level with the band, so there is nothing sticking out. This ring style is very convenient to wear. A high setting engagement ring can make even something as simple as putting your hand through a sleeve or searching in your handbag, tricky. A lot of people get used to this eventually, but the learning curve is real.
That prominence also means that the diamond is slightly more vulnerable to damage. While most daily tasks won’t pose much of a risk to your diamond, it stands to reason that the more it sticks out, the more likely it is to get bumped, knocked, or scraped.
Low setting engagement rings are what we are generally more used to seeing. Typically, we would think of low setting engagement rings as the ‘norm’, whereby the diamond’s culet (its lowest point) sits just a millimeter or two above the band.
Now, keep in mind that this still means the diamond has plenty of clearance above the ring. Low set does not mean squat or foreshortened.
Low setting engagement rings generally appear the most proportioned. Since we are used to seeing them without one-to-two-millimetre clearance above the band, anything significantly higher than that can appear a little disproportionate. Of course, a beautiful ring design will always compensate for that fact, so don’t be deterred if a high setting is your preferred option. If you’re on the fence, simply keep it in mind.
They are also more convenient to wear. As we mentioned above, high setting engagement rings are a lot more prone to snagging and catching, simply because the diamond is more prominently placed. Low setting engagement rings feel a little more aerodynamic, although, if you’re new to wearing a ring of this type, there will still be a learning curve as you figure out how to do regular-person things without those bumps and snags.
Low setting rings still get plenty of light. Again, this all depends on the style of your centre setting. If your diamond is set in a bezel, for instance, don’t expect it to sparkle as much as a solitaire held in place by prongs, even if those two diamonds sit at exactly the same height on the finger. But, if we’re comparing a 4 prong solitaire low set engagement ring with a 4 prong solitaire high set engagement ring, it is unlikely you will notice a significant amount of difference between the two in terms of sparkle.
Low set diamonds will also inevitably appear slightly smaller, but remember this is only an optical illusion. A high setting isn’t going to make a 1 carat diamond look like a 5 carat diamond, or even a 2 carat diamond. A high setting will have a very small impact on the visual impact of the stone, but, for some people, it’s enough to convince them to add those extra millimetres to their centre setting’s height.
In terms of visual impact, the high setting engagement ring wins by virtue of the fact that it gives the diamond slightly more light, and the illusion of a bigger size. As we’ve mentioned, this is quite minor, but it’s powerful enough to seal the deal for a lot of shoppers. Then again, a mark against the high setting design when it comes to visual impact is that it can appear somewhat disproportionate. A traditionally lower set solitaire will always be the classic choice.
In terms of comfort, the low setting engagement ring has to be the winner here. Both styles require a grace period as the wearer gets used to carting around a diamond – trust us, as far as ‘learning curves’ go, this one is pretty sweet – but low settings are definitely easier to get used to.
For anyone who leads a relatively active lifestyle, has kids, or doesn’t like to feel restricted in their daily activities, then we would certainly recommend a low setting engagement ring. Of course, you should always remove your engagement ring for strenuous activities like exercise, or activities that will get the ring dirty, like gardening. But, some of us are simply more on-the-go than others and, for those people, prioritising comfort and wearability is key.
Then again, if you know your ring design is going to be kind of bulky – say, if it’s going to feature multiple centre stones, a halo, or even a double halo – we would recommend considering a higher setting. Don’t just think about the engagement ring in isolation. Think about the fact that, eventually, it is going to be worn alongside at least one more ring, and possibly between two rings. When you’ve got three rings side by side, making them fit nicely alongside one another is very important.
But don’t sweat it if you prefer a low set engagement ring. A high setting isn’t your only option. You can pick a wedding band design, for instance, that fits snugly around a halo.
Once again, the low set engagement ring wins here. The diamond is less prominent, which means it’s more secure and durable.
One area where the high set ring wins is in cleaning. Since the metalwork beneath the diamond has more ‘space’, it’s easier to clear out any minor build-up between the prongs.
High vs low is one of the questions almost any engagement ring buyer will need to ask themselves, whether they’re going for the simplest design possible – or something a lot more showy and complex. The only exception to the rule is shoppers looking at flush settings which, let’s face it, are a rare choice for an engagement ring.
There are pros and cons to each—you just need to figure out whether a little extra size and sparkle is worth the added hassle of wearing a high set diamond, or whether you’re willing to sacrifice those perks for something more traditional and more wearable.
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