By Gary A.
Edited by Brian M.
Published Jun 2, 2021
Edited on Oct 17, 2024
Designing a custom engagement ring allows you to create something that reflects your love story, making it a truly unique and personal symbol of your commitment.
When beginning your quest for the perfect diamond engagement ring, get ready for a ton of decisions that need to be made right off the bat. There’s so much out there that it can be hard to separate the wheat from the chaff – to follow objective advice subjectively, and to ensure all your bases are covered by the research you manage to cram in when your partner is out of the room.
Custom-made diamond engagement rings are becoming more and more popular. Gone are the days of ‘point and pick’ a ready-made ring at a jewelry store’s window display. These days, you can find exactly what you dreamed of – and more besides.
Before we dive deeper into the specifics, here are some practical tips to help guide your decision-making process:
Now that you’ve got these practical tips, use Jeweler AI below to find the perfect engagement ring that suits your style and budget:
Maybe it’s at the hand of our personalized coffee orders or next-day cross-country delivery services that we’ve grown accustomed to getting exactly what we want, when we want it. Either way, custom-designing a ring from scratch is no longer reserved for the likes of the rich and famous. It’s easy, especially once you’re paired with our expert JewelerAI.
So, where to begin?
You’ll want to have a vision for what your partner would want, and a pretty solid understanding of the basics of diamonds and diamond rings.
First, you’ll want to find a good jewelry vendor. That’s really where we come in. Willyou is all about finding exactly what you want, from the diamond to the ring design. Our innovative JewelerAI will walk you through their step-by-step custom designing process so that you can create her dream ring.
While beauty lies in the eye of the beholder, customizing an engagement ring is inarguably the best way to give your future bride the ring of her dreams. A custom engagement ring is personal, irreplaceable, and totally unique.
Everyone thinks their engagement ring is better than anyone else’s, whether it features a design that has been seen thousands of times before, or a design that is totally unique and personal to the couple whose love it represents.
If you’re browsing engagement ring styles on Pinterest or staring at the ring fingers of friends and family and can’t seem to find anything that sets the wedding bells ringing in your head – or just wish you could combine that band with that diamond and that metal – then a custom engagement ring is probably going to be the better choice for you.
Unique details are what make a beautiful ring into a beloved ring, even if it’s something as simple as your initials engraved on the inside of the band. Those little extras make for the perfect proposal story, and we don’t think we’ll ever get enough of them.
There are many different ways to make a ring, and you’re going to want to review them all before you settle on any design specifics. From the showpiece to the ‘wings’, you’d be surprised to learn how much a relatively simple change can alter the entire look and feel of your engagement ring.
Diamond, metal, personalizations – in that order! The diamond is the most important (and most expensive) element, so it’s always best to pick that first and let everything fall into place around it.
Sure, this screams ‘starting off in the deep end’, but is there really any better place to start? When you’re down on one knee, pulling the lid off that ring box, the first thing your partner sees is going to be the diamond at the very center, and not the finer details.
Plus, from a more pragmatic standpoint, the diamond will be the biggest investment you make. Sure, gold or platinum are both pretty valuable, but they won’t cost anywhere near as much as your diamond – and neither would you want them to.
To put it in simple terms, we recommend you earmark around 80 to 85% of your budget for this part. We’ll talk more about the costs of designing a custom engagement ring below, but this is a great ballpark figure to start off with – especially if you already have a rough figure in mind for the entire ring.
When it comes to design, the first two things that’ll come to mind are shape and size…
There’s nothing more sparkly than a Round Brilliant diamond – but, then again, there’s nothing more stylishly feminine than the Princess cut diamond, or classically elegant than the Emerald cut. For brides expecting to be dazzled by fire when they look at their diamond, then the Cushion is second to none – but, for brides with an edgier style, the Marquise could be the perfect choice.
If you’re feeling dazed, then don’t worry – that’s pretty much expected at this point. The point is not to overwhelm you with options, but to prove quite how much scope there is for personalization.
Even the simplicity of the diamond solitaire engagement ring can be reinterpreted with some pretty drastic results just by changing up the diamond placed at the center. For instance, this Marquise Diamond Cathedral Engagement Ring puts an unexpected twist on a traditional silhouette, while remaining elegant and, in many ways, pretty understated, too.
If you can’t choose, you could opt to incorporate more than one diamond shape into your ring – and take advantage of the unique characteristics of each. For instance, this Emerald Cut Pavé Engagement Ring benefits from the incredibly dynamic sparkle brought by the Round cut melee diamonds along the shank, which offer the perfect complement to the more restrained shine of the Emerald at the ring’s center.
Even if you’ve never read a single article about engagement rings in your life, you probably know full well that, for a lot of future brides, big diamonds represent the ideal. As a result, you probably already know that you want to go as big as possible, budget permitting.
While it might seem like a vague starting point, it’s a starting point, nonetheless. Once you nail down the kind of carat weight and shape you want for your diamond, your options for the ring’s overall design will start to get a lot clearer.
For that, it’s best to start by reading our guide to carat weight, and how it (typically) influences the overall size of your diamond.
While the diamond is the most important element, the setting is where your own creativity and uniqueness is going to shine through…
Most shoppers fall into one of two camps: gold or platinum engagement rings. Gold is a little more versatile, since you’ll have your pick of white gold, rose gold, or traditionally yellow gold – and, of course, the karat type, too.
Platinum is the stronger and more expensive option, but it’s got a few benefits you’ll want to know about if you’re in the market for this precious metal.
For a more unique feel, you could opt for a mixed metal engagement ring, combining the traditional look of yellow gold, for instance, with the more modern look of white gold.
When you’re browsing styles to buy, it’s easier to think about the ring as-a-whole. A custom design is an opportunity to think about every element separately, from the prong style (or an alternative, like the bezel) to any metalwork like filigree, accent stones, and subtler features like hidden halos.
Browse plenty of designs. Even if you’re planning on doing everything totally your own way, the end result will still feature elements that appear in existing designs. The more fluent you can get in the ‘ring design lingo’, the better.
A customer ring can cost anywhere from around the $10,000 mark plus, depending on the complexity of the design, the metal used and, most important of all, the size and quality of your chosen diamond or diamonds.
The cost of customizing a diamond engagement ring can widely vary based on a number of factors. In the past, it was common to go by the “three-month’s-salary” rule but that has long been forgotten. You can find a ring that’s within your budget and refrain from breaking the bank, especially if you let our JewelerAI take over the hard work of finding a beautiful, eye clean diamond that’s really worth every penny of the money you’re investing into it.
Your center stone’s carat weight, or size, for one, will greatly affect the price of your ring. If it’s a rarer diamond then, naturally, this will drive up your ring’s price – and, as you can probably imagine, larger diamonds come at a premium cost. If you’re working with a diamond already in your possession, say, a family heirloom, then you’re looking at a lower cost.
If your diamond is 1-carat, then you’re looking at the $10,000-$15,000 price range. If it’s more intricately set with lots of added detail, again, you’re looking at a greater sum. A larger center stone, accent stones with more carat weight, and more overall intricacy in your setting will take you to the $15,000-$30,000 price range. Using more costly metals like platinum will also increase cost.
Your timeframe for your custom diamond engagement ring will all depend on the complexity of the design. Generally speaking, custom-designing a diamond engagement ring, from start to finish, should take something like 2-4 weeks.
Of course, you’re going to want to get started as soon as possible, because it may take longer than that – particularly at busier times of year. WillYou streamlines the custom diamond ring creation process by giving you access to our JewelerAI You’ll want to use our guide to take yourself through a crash course in the 4 Cs – carat, clarity, cut, and color in order to get the perfect diamond.
Once you go over your exact vision together, you’ll have a second appointment to see the completed ring and make any last changes before picking it up and taking it home!
Designing a ring online is one of the simplest ways to get exactly what you want. Our site has everything you could need in order to pin down the perfect combination of elements, and our JewelerAI has been designed to carry you through the process of picking a diamond, designing a ring, and getting everything perfect without all the heavy lifting.
If you’re willing to do your research and exercise just the right amount of bravery to stray from the norm, then you will no doubt find that customizing an engagement ring – or designing it totally from scratch – is one of the most rewarding things you can do for your partner.
Custom engagement rings are a perfect way to personalize your diamond ring. Proposing with any diamond ring will, of course, be sufficient, but custom designing and creating a ring made specifically for her by you will undoubtedly knock her socks off.
Any engagement ring will take on a tremendous amount of sentimental value from the moment you bring it home – and particularly after it’s found its way onto your partner’s finger – but personalized engagement rings have that extra sentimentality about them, simply because of the time and effort that their makers put into them. Whether you worked on the design yourself, or simply added a meaningful line of text onto the inside of the band, ‘making it special’ is totally worth the effort.
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