By Gary A.
Edited by Brian M.
Published Jan 10, 2023
Edited on Nov 4, 2024
Whether you’re commemorating a date or a special line of poetry, adding a ring engraving to a ring is a beautiful way of adding a special touch that only you and your partner may ever know about.
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A jeweler can use a machine, laser, or their own hand to engrave a ring.
Machine engraving is achieved when your local jeweler uses a sharp tool that traces a template or pattern of letters and symbols you choose to have inscribed on your ring. The font templates are limited, and the engraving isn’t very deep, but the overall look is much neater than hand engraving.
Hand engraving, conversely, is imperfect by nature, but has a unique and original charm to it.
It also allows for more options in terms of style and symbols that the templates simply don’t have. Since engraving by hand is usually deeper set in the ring, the message lasts longer and is more noticeable. The difference in depth from letter to letter or symbol to symbol adds depth and is more visually interesting.
Laser engraving, while sometimes more expensive, offers more variation in depth, font style, and size. Since the machine is connected to a computer, it’s also much easier to work in other languages. This method is also optimal if you’d like more words to fit on a ring, like a meaningful quote.
Certain metals will also require longer dwell times, which can only be achieved by this method. Although it sounds crazy, lasers can even engrave into the girdle of a diamond. It will only be seen under high magnification but wow – what a lovely secret surprise.
Before we dive deeper into the specifics, here are some practical tips to help guide your decision-making process:
Now that you’ve got these practical tips, use Jeweler AI below to find the perfect engagement ring that suits your style and budget:
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This is the classic choice – picking a date, set of initials, or name that means something to the intended wearer. This is a beautiful way to commemorate your love; if the ring is passed down through the generations, it’ll stand as a permanent reminder of the original owner, and their love.
The possibilities are endless! Some people have the words “I Promise” engraved either on the inside of the shank or have a split engraving with “I Promise” on the outside and “to love you” or “to cherish you” continued on the inside. Other popular words or phrases include the obvious, “I love you” or a simple and powerful “Forever” or “Eternity.” Other commonly requested phrases like “Soul Mates”, “To have and to hold”, and “My heart is yours to keep” are always a sure bet.
You won’t go wrong with lines from romantic poetry or Shakespeare like:
You could have something engraved in your or their mother tongue, or simply in one of the romance languages like:
If you or your spouse is Jewish, you might want to go with the well-known “I am my Beloved’s, and my Beloved is mine” written in beautiful Hebrew letters. Actually, if they speak another language or if they have an ancestral language that they feel connected to, do some research, and find the perfect fit.
If you have nicknames for each other that might be a cute idea to consider. Perhaps a word, name, or phrase referencing a shared experience or how you first met. Personalizing your engraving with an important date or meaningful location coordinates is a fantastic idea.
Also, an original idea that we’ve seen growing in popularity over the last few years is getting a famous movie quote engraved on your ring. Getting “I love you” on one band and “I know” on the other, referencing the iconic Han Solo and Princess Leia exchange is a fan favorite.
And of course:
Thicker bands are sometimes used to feature a fingerprint – something that makes the bad totally unique and special to the wearer. Most engagement ring bands are too slim to achieve this, but it’s a great idea for the wedding band.
The nice thing about inscriptions is that you can get them done whenever you want.
Your local jeweler can work with you to have the ring engraved and ready for your proposal, or, you can get something added days, weeks or even years later. Some people like to surprise their spouse years later, while getting the ring “cleaned”, with a loving and meaningful message. For others, engraving the date of the proposal is important – but, before those four words actually start tumbling out of their mouth, they might not know exactly when they are going to be able to do it.
It’s up to you whether or not you tell her, or let her discover it on her own.
Any in-store engraving at your local diamond jeweler shouldn’t take longer than a day or two.
If you’re having your diamond engagement ring laser-engraved, it could take up to two weeks – so be sure to factor-in this wait time if you’re buying your ring close to the date of your proposal.
Engraving the ring is a great way to put that final, personal twist on the ring’s design. Make sure you’re realistic about the added time it takes, and consider waiting until after the proposal to get that final flourish added.
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